ive been married 4 times--so far !
first time i was 20--she 19, a born in. During our 3 year courtship we got up to most sexual antics--bar actual penetration. My sole reason for wanting to get married was to "go all the way". Very early on in our courtship i realised she was a firebrand religious fanatic--and very possessive and quick to take offence at anything from anyone. Within a few months of being married i knew it was all a big mistake--and wanted out--but knew i couldnt. I knew if i had had full sex before marriage it would have been an even bigger mistake.
The marriage somehow lasted 13 years till she filed for divorce "on scriptural grounds " We had 3 kids.